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PostSubject: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Sun Oct 26 2008, 18:58

Growing with Someone

Keep this in mind. This is for all: the recently married, the ones who have been married, the soon to get married, and the ones who are still looking...

Years ago, I asked God to give me a spouse, "You don't own because you didn't ask," God said. Not only I asked for a spouse but also explained what kind of spouse I wanted. I want a nice, tender, forgiving, passionate, honest, peaceful, generous, understanding, pleasant, warm, intelligent, humorous, attentive, compassionate and truthful. I even mentioned the physical characteristics I dreamt about. As time went by, I added the required list of my wanted spouse.

One night, in my prayer, God talked to my heart: "My servant, I cannot give you what you want", I asked God why? God said, "Because I am God and I am fair. God is the truth and all I do are true and right."

I asked "God, I don't understand why I cannot have what I ask from you?" God answered, "I will explain. It is not fair and right for Me to fulfill your demand because I cannot give something that is not your own self.

It is not fair to give someone who is full of love to you if sometimes you are still hostile, or to give you someone generous but sometimes you can be cruel; or someone forgiving, however, you still hide revenge; someone understanding, however, you are very insensitive...

"He then said to me: "It is better for Me to give you someone who I know could grow to have all qualities you are searching rather than to make you waste your time to find someone who already has the qualities you want."

Your spouse would be bone from your bone and flesh from your flesh and you will see yourself in her and both of you will be one. Marriage is like a school. It is a life-long education. It is where you and your partner make adjustment and aim not merely to please each other, but to be better human beings and to make a solid teamwork. I do not give you a perfect partner, because you are not perfect either. I give you a partner with whom you would grow together.

"Love is a commitment of the heart that will stand the test of wavering emotions, intellectual rationalizing, circumstantial allure, hormonal infatuation, and even the wounds of your lover. Anything less is not true love."

"Have A Heart That Never Hates
Have A Smile That Never Fades
Have A Touch That Never Hurts
And Build A Relation That Never Breaks"
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Sun Oct 26 2008, 20:00

Ang ganda brod sanibabe nito..God is fair nga nman..,ganda ng message.. goodpost

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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Oct 27 2008, 10:16

nice post bro
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Tue Oct 28 2008, 11:42

Have A Heart That Never Hates
Have A Smile That Never Fades
Have A Touch That Never Hurts
And Build A Relation That Never Breaks"


I like this one... thanks for sharing bro...
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Tue Oct 28 2008, 13:24

sanibabe wrote:
I do not give you a perfect partner, because
you are not perfect either. I give you a partner with whom you would
grow together.


goodpost bro sanibabe...
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Wed Oct 29 2008, 07:46

nice post.. it realy touch my heart.
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Sat Nov 08 2008, 05:30

marriage really teaches us how to become someone! marriage is not about perfection it is about compatibility! thanks sa post. goodpost

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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Jan 19 2009, 00:20

Dudes.... Basahin ko lang yung mga threads mo lalo kiang nakikilala....
hindi ka lang pala puro kakulitan.... i want it

oks to... lalo tuloy ako nainlove..... day dreaming goodpost
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Jan 19 2009, 13:08

lahi pala ni Francisco Balagtas si tol Sani...
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Sat Jul 18 2009, 07:59

"Have A Heart That Never Hates
Have A Smile That Never Fades
Have A Touch That Never Hurts
And Build A Relation That Never Breaks"


hope i can have this traits

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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Wed Jul 22 2009, 18:51

ganoon nga yata kapag nagmamahal
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Sun Sep 13 2009, 15:09

parang i need to read this again... /bumpsmiley

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We don't only have the RIGHT to be INDIVIDUAL... but also it's our OBLIGATION to be ONE .....
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Sun Sep 13 2009, 16:57

sometimes you will learn from HIM if HE never gives you want you wanted but we keep on state our case which we always asking and asking siguro makukuletan rin iyan at maibigay sa iyo ang hinahanap mo tol dont worry kung hindi man maibigay malamang may purpose o baka naman maibigay rin matagalan lang kasi siguro marami kang hinihingi kaya nahirapan rin SIYA magbalot , kaya para maibigay sa iyo ang nais mo keep on praying para madali niya maibigay sa iyo ang nais mo... teka lang ano ba ang hinihingi mo ... ang dami naman pala... mahirap nga ibigay iyan kahit ako hindi ko rin kaya ibigay sa iyo hehehehe...

As long as you dont have to heart to hurt anyone guess you get what you ask for.... o pwede mo na ulet ma bump! lots of laugh
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Sep 14 2009, 07:06

Its a case to case basis.

For me, if I really love the guy but the relationship is not working for both of us, then I don't see any reason why we should prolong the agony. Unless ofcourse, we have not tried to fix it or come into terms. Nevertheless, if it's time to let go, we have to accept it even if it hurts like hell. Tho, I prefer to be the one left behind, rather than the one leaving or causing the pain. Kasi I can console myself by saying..."it's your loss, not mine."

Move over Jose Rizal, here I come. lots of laugh
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Sep 14 2009, 07:15

Wow mali.....lots of laugh

Erase...erase...erase...pano ko ba malilipat tong sagot ko dun sa isang topic....anak ng teteng...nagramble na e...kasi naman bigla nawawala yung mga sagot ko.

Churi...churi...pasensya na po....wrong mistake.
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Sep 14 2009, 16:33

pinaynb0racay wrote:
Wow mali.....lots of laugh

Erase...erase...erase...pano ko ba malilipat tong sagot ko dun sa isang topic....anak ng teteng...nagramble na e...kasi naman bigla nawawala yung mga sagot ko.

Churi...churi...pasensya na po....wrong mistake.

hehehehe saan mo gusto ilagay eto hahahaha kailangan may kiss kapag mailipat eto hahahaha asan ba si friend daryll?
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Sep 14 2009, 16:50

RINGO STARR wrote:
pinaynb0racay wrote:
Wow mali.....lots of laugh

Erase...erase...erase...pano ko ba malilipat tong sagot ko dun sa isang topic....anak ng teteng...nagramble na e...kasi naman bigla nawawala yung mga sagot ko.

Churi...churi...pasensya na po....wrong mistake.

hehehehe saan mo gusto ilagay eto hahahaha kailangan may kiss kapag mailipat eto hahahaha asan ba si friend daryll?

nawala tuloy si sis pinay friend kasi tinakot mo naman ....
sis pinay sang topic mo ba gustong ilipat to? pwede rin sis copy paste mo nalang tong sagot mo dun sa topic na gusto mong sagutan.... saka ko nalang i delete tong nauna mong post dito sa thread
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Sep 14 2009, 20:40

saniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii goodpost
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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Sep 14 2009, 21:49

lezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz di mo naman yata binasa eh... bumibingo ka lang eh... tongue/dila

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PostSubject: Re: GROWING wIth SOMEONE   Mon Sep 14 2009, 21:50

jusko naman natagalan nga ako sa pagbasa jan eh ang haba-haba pareho kau ni ringo cry
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